Men put sex at the top of their list of things to do. Women put work, cleaning the house, cooking, taking care of kids, etc.. All before sex. Alot of married women go through the act of sex to make their husbands happy but men can tell the difference! A man can tell the difference between a woman who really wants to be there and one who is throwing a bone! While it is a nice gesture on the womans part, it might not suffice.
In a women's defense; if she has to work a job, wash clothes, take care of the kids, cook each night, and clean house on the weekends. I'd be too tired to have sex to! But I know couples were the wife doesn't have to do any of the above and it still doesn't make a difference in the sex department. So even taking care of all of the above isn't always the answer either. Usually the way it goes, if its gonna happen it will. If not, nothing you can do to put her in the mood. She'll probably need to flirt with an outside source so she can get worked up enough to have sex with you.
Men should be understanding of their wife, especially after having a baby! And if women don't want to have as much sex as men, then I guess the best is to learn how to meet in the middle. Definitely communicate your feelings to your spouse before you do something drastic! They should have every chance to try and fix any problems! The sad part for men is that how do you know if your wife is telling the truth? It's also sad that kids get caught in the middle of these affairs! Kids are not the cause of these problems but often are the ones who pay the price!
Married men have to realize what women are really attracted to! Women say they want a nice guy who does everything she wants, etc.. But how many times have you've seen a woman post a pic of her celeb crush on facebook? What does the celeb crush look like? Is her crush a man who has been loyal to his wife for 20 years and does the dishes, etc..? No. Her celeb crush is a hot body. That's it! Women are as much pigs as men are! Just men are more honest about it! When women say they want a nice guy, that really means, "I want a Hot Guy who is nice!" Or a guy with money who is nice. Women are also attracted to men other women want! How many times in your youth, as a man, did women want to date you just because somebody else wanted you? And when one doesn't want you, nobody wants you! It's a screwed-up system, but it's the way it is!
A man's idea of marriage is, "I give up all other women for you. In return, you should give me sex anytime I want it!" When this is broken, that's when problems set in! This is why life is screwed up! Because people who do what's "right," getting married, etc.. Are the ones who get screwed! People who live wrong reap the rewards!
The moral of the story is; If you're married and have kids, your sex life will probably never be what it was before you and your wife had kids.
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